Modeling: A Traumatic Career..!!

Modeling: A Traumatic Career..!!

Hello Friends,

I always say LIFE is very beautiful and if we can't enjoy it then surely it's our fault. Two days back one of the most happening models of the B-Town Viveka Babajee has committed suicide and ended her life. Speculations are rife that she must be in depression and survival was impossible for her so she took that decision.

I always wonder why such beautiful girls and ladies of B-Town who are blessed with almost all the things which are required for a successful life but still they end up committing suicides. This is not the first case of the B-Town when some model has committed suicide but in the past there were several models who had been through this typical phase of life. In fact there are some models who were so drug addicted they lost all their senses. I always thinks what is the reason for such suicides. Is Modelling life so traumatic??


What I personally realize is that there is not a single reason for the failure of models. There are various factors which contribute to such disaster.

Firstly, As we all know that Going Ups and Downs in career is very natural phenomenon . No body can be a king for whole life. Same is case with the life of the models. When they enter into their modeling career they are pretty young faces and most of the biggies of the town are also happy to cast them into new roles and make the most of them. This is very much fine. But as the life progresses and their job becomes demanding then they have face several thing which are not at all acceptable by them. But since their job is demanding that from them so, they have to do it whatever the situation is. This sometimes creates frustration in them.

Secondly, the modeling culture is so different that they are hardly accepted by the sophisticated people of the society. Drinking, Smoking and doing all the other things which society consider it as a curse are pretty common for them. But since models have to survive and to maintain their status they have to do it. So whenever they walk on ramp or go in parties they are highly appreciated by the people around them but when they actually face the reality they find themselves aloof. Very few parents would love to see their daughters walking on ramp and showcase their body. But most girls take this decision against the will of their parents and society and find that even their loved ones are also not with them. They are in fact totally debarred from the society. So this feeling creates frustration and at the end they find that no one is their to support them in difficult times.

Thirdly, since they are aloof so they find someone who can take care of her and can provide the basic necessities of life. But since they belong to such an extreme profession that a person of sophisticated society is hard to get. So they find solace in the people around them whom they met in parties etc. But there also the path is not easy. Both model and her partner are together just because both of them are getting publicity and they are pretty happy with buzz of their affair. But my friends, any relationship just for the sake of publicity will never ever go long and one day it has to collapse. So one more shock for the model, what she thought to be her life partner ends up ditching her. So another frustration and another despair.


So through this article what I mean to say that nothing is permanent in this universe and whether you are a model, business professional or any other celebrity one thing should be kept in mind that if you have reached to the pinnacle then one day you have to once again come the ground only. So why don't you accept that heartily.

At last I just want to convey the message that Life is full of opportunities and never consider yourself worthless. These models are a big message to the society that what human being needs is satisfaction. So your ultimate aim should be to seek satisfaction and live your life happily.

Thankss a lot for being so patient..!! Waiting for your views..So Do comment..!!!
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Story of Father and Son..!!!

Hello Friends…!!!!

On this Special Day...i.e World Father's Day I thought Why shouldn't I share such a heart touching story....!!!! So here's the story..Plz read it to get full message...!!!!


A young man was getting ready to graduate college. For many months he had admired a beautiful sports car in a dealer's showroom, and knowing his father could well afford it, he told him that was all he wanted.

As Graduation Day approached, the young man awaited signs that his father had purchased the car. Finally, on the morning of his graduation his father called him into his private study. His father told him how proud he was to have such a fine son, and told him how much he loved him. He handed his son a beautiful wrapped gift box.

Curious, but somewhat disappointed the young man opened the box and found a lovely, leather-bound Bible. Angrily, he raised his voice at his father and said, "With all your money you give me a Bible?" and stormed out of the house, leaving the holy
book.

Many years passed and the young man was very successful in business.He had a beautiful home and wonderful family, but realized his father was very old, and thought perhaps he should go to him. He had not seen him since that graduation day. Before he could make arrangements, he received a telegram telling him his father had passed away, and willed all of his possessions to his son. He needed to come home immediately and take care things. When he arrived at his father's house, sudden sadness and regret filled his heart.

He began to search his father's important papers and saw the still new Bible, just as he had left it years ago. With tears, he opened the Bible and began to turn the pages. As he read those words, a car key dropped from an envelope taped behind the Bible.It had a tag with the dealer's name, the same dealer who had the
sports car he had desired. On the tag was the date of his graduation,
and the words...PAID IN FULL.

How many times do we miss God's blessings because they are not
packaged as we expected???? Some Things r Realized when they r not with us...!!!

So I personally Think Father & Son are world's Best Friends..who understands each others feelings very well..So REVERE every Decision of his and Understand his teachings very well...!!!

Thanxx for being so patient..!!!

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I am TWEETING.....Are YOU..????

I am TWEETING...Are YOU..???

Hello Friends...!!!

Am Back after a long gap. I was bit busy with all my silly stuffs of the college and all that jazzz...!!! But any ways I am back with some what new topic.

This time around the world has gone socially addicted. No I am not talking about any weird thing, but in fact I am talking about TWITTER and other social networking sites...!!! These days I am very much addicted to twitter. Not only me but almost all the celebrities, business professionals and every other individual is using it.

Every Individual is now asking questions to everyone, Hey Dude "I am on TWITTER, ARE You???". So this simply shows that How this micro blog which only provides you a space of 140 characters is ruling the mind of people. Every body is socially addicted.

There are several advantages of getting used to this Social Networking. First of all it provides you with instant updates of what all is happening in the world. Since most of news channels are using Twitter and Facebook, So those following can get instant access to the news from anywhere in the world.

More over There are thousands of job portals who are making students and job seekers aware of the latest jobs of their choice. Like I am following http://www.freshersworld.com/which provides me instant access to the recent happening in the world of corporates. I get daily updates about the companies which are on a hiring spree.

Since many students and business professionals are using it as a tool to expand their business and as a source of information, Celebs are also not devoid of this addiction. I can see almost every celebrity tweeting every update.

Many Says that This Twitter and Facebook is all for the youngsters. Who Says this?? Recently the most senior pro of our Bollywood industry Mr Amitabh Bachchan Started his twitter account and in no time his followers reached One Lakh. So this simply shows that how every body want to make their presence felt in the world of Social Networking.

Many thinks that this is a sheer waste of time. But my dear friends you will be shocked to know that companies have started identifying how socially active a person is??? You simply type a name on Google and it will display your presence in the world of Social networking. So like We are socially active in our society it is the need of the hour to be socially active on Web too.

Though Social Networking is Advantageous but it has flip side too. Like we are updating every information of ours on the twitter and facebook and all the other social networking website, this has allowed an easy access for the terrorist and criminals to identify the full portfolio of a person and can easily trace out where the person is at present. This is a biggest threat social sites are suffering from. But it depends on the individual what information they want to display and what to not. It is very important for a person what image they want to project in front of their peers. Whatever they will write the other person will be able to know. So Take it as a Caution: You have to keep your privacy intact while doing social networking.

But anyways despite having some flaws in social networking every individual is loving it and getting addicted to it. In fact now with the Introduction of 3G in the country this thing will definitely going to rise and you will find people using it very frequently and that too at an ease. Whether this Sociall Networking boom in India is going to be hit or not only time will tell. Keep your fingers crossed.

So Friends I am surely tweeting and facebooking...Are you....??? Join Social networking websites and make your presence felt globally. I am personally enjoying this newly generated interest in social networking. Hows you feeling..??? Do reply and share your social networking experience..!!!

Thank you..!!!!

KASAB Deserves Death...!!!!

KASAB Deserves Death..!!

Hello friends..

Indian Constitution has today taken a historic decision. Yes, you all guessed it right, I am talking about KASAB the lone surviving terrorist of 26/11.

26/11, The Day which brought India to knees. It was one of the biggest terrorist attack and not only it was the attack but more over it was an effort to plummet India's image. Their sole aim was to create fear amongst the people of India.

Amir Ajmal Kasab, The lone surviving terrorist who was convicted of 166 deaths and more than 86 other cases got the punishment for his deeds. After 17 months of his detention he got the reward for what he did. He was in fact treated like a VIP. You might be shocked to hear that More than 35 Cr Rs have been spent till date on him. He was such a costly customer for India. Every Indian is pretty happy with the decision made by the Judiciary of India and it was almost expected that He will be sentenced to death.

As soon as I got the confirmation I was excited and jubilant that those bloody terrorist who were involved in bitter vendetta got what they deserved.Though he got the Capital Punishment but still one thing I was worrying about WHEN he will finally sentenced to death???? Because there are as many as 52 cases pending regarding the death sentence but still they aren't executed. I am reminded of the case of AFZAL GURU, he was also given capital punishment but till date it has not been executed. That's is something which is really a issue of concern not only for me but for whole India.

Giving Death punishment is of no use until and unless it is executed.I must say that this decision should be taken very fast so as to spread the message among the terrorist that No one will be Tolerated, when it comes to terrorism. It has to be executed as soon as possible.

At last I just want to say that Indian Judiciary has done the justice towards Indian people but now it's time to wait and see when alleged terrorist KASAB get the life sentence. Hope it happens soon.

Thank you..!!!

India: A Talent Hub

India: A TALENT HUB..!!


Hello friends

Last blog was all about my loneliness but this time around you will be reading something about our Country. Yes our Country INDIA which is I think is a TALENT HUB.

You all might be pretty familiar with the talent hunts organized in our country. The talent hunt shows we called them as Reality Shows. Friends when we see the 25 year young performing on the stage then we don't see it as any exception, considering he might be practicing for long time. But what about a kid of meager 5 years of age, performing exceptionally well. Then we consider it as talent which needs to be nurtured. The facial expressions and the professionalism they show in their performance is worth appreciating. It is pretty injustice towards them to call them as amateurs. They are fabulous. This is what makes me proud of this country. India is a hub of talent and what they need is recognition of their potential.

Recently two Reality Dance shows for the kids viz "CHAK DHOOM DHOOM" on colors and "L'll Master" a junior version of DID(Dance India Dance). The contestants are called from all over India and almost every city is immensely talented that it's hard to choose a single one as winner. In fact it is like choosing that BEST amongst the BEST. I am very much impressed by these little kids showing lot much confidence and daring to touch the peak. They are really ambitious and their comments suggest that they have decided their objective in life and are working for that. I must say Indian kids are worth a gold. They will really be the superstars in the coming years.

Though they are vastly talented and they are getting a platform to showcase their talent. But Friends one thing that makes me apprehensive that "Is it Really a Right Age for them to face this kind of tough competition??" I agree with the fact that everybody cannot be selected but still when these little kids are meant to enjoy every moment of their childhood are forced to work really hard for such competitions. Are these Reality shows ruining their childhood. After tremendous hard work a kid, if not selected can sometimes bear huge mental shock and in that case it is a big loss to the country.

So, I am not opposing such talent hunt shows but I want to appeal to all the little kids and their gracious parents that Don't make your kid's life stressful. They are still in growing age and pressuring them for just a competition will be injustice to their childhood. Parent's have now bigger responsibility to make their kid understand this is just the competition and not the life. This kind of inspiration will definitely allow them to work freely and will be much better for their future. And I also appeal to these reality show people that Please Widen the scope of the competition and instead of just rejecting such little kids give them at least a little gift as memento in the same manner as if you are awarding to the winner so that they will cherish it for long. Even a little scholarship to every participant will boost their confidence. If you will do so then little kids will get motivated and your show(Talent Hunt Shows) will no longer be stressful but then it will be a great philanthropic effort from your side.

Hope you like my article and pretty much agreed to my point. Waiting for you valuable comments as always....Keep Blogging...!!!!!

Loneliness Kills...!!!!

Life is Missing Girl Factor....!!!

Hello Friends...!!

I always support the fact that LIFE is the most pleasurable gift. But sometimes it happens that Life becomes insipid and less charming just because we are missing someone..!!!

It's very true that Every thing takes time and we need to keep patience. But for how long???? Actually we expect a lot from ourselves. We try to implement our fantasies into real life.

Imagine a situation where there is someone who cares for you other than your parents and the family. This will definitely give you a sense of responsibility and will make you feel complete. Those who have girlfriend are pretty lucky, at least they have some one with which they can share their life. But life sometimes become very dull for those who don't have girlfriend or misses a girl factor.

What is the reason actually?? I always think that What is the real secret of making the girlfriend. Many a times I found my friends wallowing in the discussing about How coward are we that WE DON'T even have a girlfriend. But friend I ask you all that Is it really a matter of DARING to propose a girl or it automatically happens??

How pleasure situation it would be that someone remembers your special occasion and throws surprises to you. How beautiful it would be that someone cares for every need of yours and takes care of you. How beautiful life would be that you are responsible for your girlfriend. How beautiful it would be that You spend hours talking to your girlfriend without thinking what is happening around you...!!!! I heard that Life totally changes after you have a girlfriend..but up to what extent I don't know???

But Yes it is rightly said that At some point of time Man is incomplete without a Girl. It tends to get lonely at times especially if you're above 21. Sometimes you would long to have someone special around your age that you can confide and discuss anything with. It usually gives a good sense of feeling knowing that you have someone you can call and discuss everything whether it's a joyous moment or you are depressed. I personally think that Life with Girlfriend would be much better than a Life without Girlfriend..!!!

What are your Views..??? Every individual has his own perception...I would like to know your views and let me understand which life is better(with girlfriend or without girlfriend)..!!

By the Way I am very happy with the way my life is going on..But I just want to know how others look at the life..!!

Avidly Waiting for your comments..!!! Do post your comments..!!!

4 Yrs on...Misconception Rules my Mind...!!!!

Hello Friends..!!!!

Welcome you all...!! For the last few days blogging was brought to standstill..!!
Hmm Was Quite busy in college work and all that Jazzz...!!!

Friends....This is an article...which I m forced to write. I can't stop myself from sharing it on my blog. Relationships are like a glass....Even a Single Crack can damage the beauty of the relationship..!!!
This is what is actually happening recently at the college leaving party.

We entered in college taking a dream of making lot many friend and we to an extent build a great bond between the class members. But when some hostile thing happens it really hurts everybody..!!

As one of my friend said "Individually, we are one drop. Together, we are an ocean." This theory we should implement to our class also. When we came to college 4 Yrs Before we were single drop but during these beautiful 4 Yrs we are now like an ocean, so why there is so much turbulence in this ocean when we are about to leave.

Life is short and within a very short time we need to create unforgettable memories, Instead of creating sweet memories the ambiance is full of rancorous moments..!!!

College leaving party is tribute to the 4 year relationship we have built up. So onus is on us to make it one of the most unforgettable moment of life. Misconception will always be there but it should not affect the party..!!! We need to enjoy fully and without everybody's support it will not be possible..!! Even a single friend missing a party will be big blow for us..!!!

So at last I just want to say that Don't be a victim of Misconceptions and Participate enthusiastically. Every effort will somehow strengthen the bond.

Hope I didn't write nything controversial...!! If any plz don't mind it..!!!

All set for the College Leaving Party...!!! Great..!!!!

I xpect everybody to be a part of this event...!!! Guys we will definitely rock...!!!