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Monday, July 11, 2011

FACEBOOK ------------> GOOGLE + (All About Human Attitude)







FACEBOOK -------- GOOGLE +
(All About HUMAN Attitude)

Hi Friends..

It’s been a long time since we met..!!! I was busy with all my Job stuffs and my hectic life schedule…!!!
But whatever be case…I Can’t stop myself to express and share my feelings with you lovely audience…!!!

CHANGE is bound to happen and I can’t deny the fact that we human Beings need CHANGE in order to maintain CHARM and FUN in our lives…

YES Friends…u all guessed it Right….m Talking about the Change from FB----->Google+..!!!

GOOGLE + has gone live and it has hit the world of Social networking with a Bang. Guys I remember the days when I was new to orkut. I hardly knew anything about this social networking concept. But as soon as my friends started getting associated with social networking, I didn’nt have much options but to join ORKUT...!!!

Slowly and gradually People started getting familiar with Orkut and social networking spread like anything. I found many with whom I would not have contacted without ORKUT.

People started creating their network on orkut. People used this medium not only as a source of entertainment but also for business purposes. BUT all gone in vain when the new and even more enriching concept FACEBOOK came into the picture. The New World was so attractive that even the well settled ORKUTIANS quit and accepted FACEBOOK as their only source of social networking…They became so addicted that even their smallest update was done on the profile..I must appreciate that people are very ready to accept the changes in life.

It’s hardly a matter of few more days…FACEBOOK will be discussed and will be the source of entertainment for YOUNGSTERS…because we have been hit by much popular and much user friendly World of GOOGLE..i.e GOOGLE+..!!!!

Even I have joined it and I like it very much..!!

So, Friends What I wanted to emphasize is THE NATURE OF HUMAN BEINGS. People today are very dynamic and are ready to accept the new things as if it is the best thing they have got. They find it so attractive and are so ready to accept the changes in the life that they don’t even bother to care whether the CHANGE will be good/effective or not. They just go on to accept the change and why not?? After all it creates FUN, EXCITEMENT and gives them Pleasure.

BUT FRIENDS…Till it is limited to the world of ONLINE SOCIAL NETWOKING there is no harm but when this attitude gets replicated in REAL LIFE then life becomes HELL because in REAL life every change may not be as effective and gives you enriching experience…as Online Social Networking provides you..!!

I must say in today’s generation i.e YOUNGSTERS this attitude has made quite an impact..!! Today’s youth is very dynamic whether it comes to Changing COMPANIES, Changing LOCATION, Changing MOBILES or even Changing RELATIONSHIPS. They are pretty comfortable in accepting the changes. They are FAST MOVERS…!!!

At the start these kind of changes are very attractive and bring CHARM, EXCITEMENT and PLEASURE to the life but the basic essence of life i.e. SATISFACTION and STABILITY is surely missing. The reason is pretty simple: they are so prone and comfortable to the changes that they just get bored out of their well settled lives..and to come out of that they are ready to accept anything that comes to their way..!!

Well, Guys I am not at all pessimistic nor I am against of these Changes but One thing surely needs to be learnt from all these is that NOTHING IS STABLE whether it is BUSINESSES, COMPANIES, FRIENDS, NATURE, MOBILES or even RELATIONSHIPS..!! You got to move on and accept these changes or else you will find yourself way behind the world.

So friends… Life will Always throw CHALLENGES through the CHANGES. But it’s up to you which change you should accept and how it should be accepted so that your life doesn’t get messed up.

Hope you like this and Do share your valuable thoughts…Thnxx for your Patience…!!!!

See u all at GOOGLE+..!!!

Wednesday, March 2, 2011

Are you A QUICK DECISION MAKER??? BEWARE..!!!



Hello Friends,

It's high time I interact with you lovely audience. There's a famous quote
" A Wise Man makes his own decision, An Ignorant Man follows public opinion". This is where the problem lies.

Many a time corporates demands you to be a quick decision maker but.. BEWARE!!!!!!! This is not always the case. It's good that you take quick decisions but it is good only when you are fully aware about the situation. Those quick decisions can ruin your career if you are ignorant and just follow the public opinion.

I would like to share a recent scenario of my company. IT industry is very big and people are hardly aware of what kind of work companies do. Some people including me come into the industry with a particular kind of mindset and work priority. But it doesn't always happen that what you desire for, you get it easily. You have to fight for it.

As a fresher in IT industry you generally don't have a choice of deciding a domain of your interest. First and foremost thing is you should do is that accept the opportunity the way it comes to you and then after proving yourself you can switch to the domain of your interest. Today one of my colleague got the project and after few hours of discussion on that project he immediately decided that the project is not good and he will either talk to top management or will resign. Whole day then went in a flash and he was constantly cursing his decision of joining the company.

But you know God always has some workaround for your problem. In the evening he talked to some senior guy of the company in that department and guess what?? That senior guy told him that the project is so good that Even the people with 4 year experience are striving to work in that project. Then he met with senior manager by chance and the manager said that you are lucky to get into the project..Congratulationss...!!!

Then the whole scenario and his perception totally changed. So after watching him only one thought was going through my mind that INSTANT DECISIONS are not always good specially if you are not fully aware of the situation.

So, guys A very good piece of advice for you all though at a very initial stage that NEVER Take decisions in a hurry...Sometimes it's good but if you don't have full knowledge it will surely lead into disaster..!!!!

Hope you too will have some similar experiences to share....Your comments and thoughts are most welcome..!!!

Sunday, November 7, 2010

It's Time To BRAND INDIA



It's Time To BRAND INDIA

Hello Friends..

As you all might be pretty aware that India in the recent times has been at the Centre Stage of the world Economy. Ever since we survived Recession effectively the world is eying INDIA with a different perspective. Now when Mr President(Barack Obama) is visiting our country to seek job opportunities and create trade relations with us, it clearly sends out the message to other countries that INDIA is no longer a Nation which will act like a slave. India has got the recognition at the World Stage and has immense potential to become the Leader for the Coming Decade. So I must say it's time to exploit this opportunity to the fullest.

As I am not a connoisseur who can talk related to economy with facts and figures but what I personally think is that now is the time to "BRAND INDIA".

Since last 60 years we have been ruled by the foreign taste & beliefs and were attracted by the "ANGREZI" style of living. We have hardly created our values a BRAND VALUE. Though various biggies have decided on the various AGENDAS they have to discuss with Mr. President, but what I think is that we should use this opportunity to spread our heritage and traditional values to the world apart from maintaining amicable trade relations. There are few things I would like to draw your attention which India should focus on in order to become a "Brand INDIA".

Firstly, India is blessed with its diversified culture. We are the only country in the world who Believes in "Unity in Diversity" and we have successfully preserved our rich heritage for decades now. So I believe now is the time when India should start promoting Indian values and culture if India aspires to become a Leader.

Secondly, Like US and other European countries have created their universities a world class and ranked among the top universities of the world. All this has happened to them just because they allowed their universities to go global. They weren't reluctant to allow the foreign students and pursue higher education. Now is the time for INDIA to promote the oldest institution of our country and help making them world class. IIT's despite being the best in producing world class techies are ranked very low at the World Stage. The reason is simple because they never allowed students of other countries to pursue higher studies. So Now is the time to take the IIT's and IIM's to a global level. Allow the Foreign students to come here and pursue their education. Allow foreign professors and students to carry out their research work. This will surely help in promoting INDIAN theories and will spread all over the world.

Thirdly, At this stage I remember the words of the Mr. Narayan Murthy who once said that "If the country really want to grow then ENTREPRENEURS will have to play a vital role". US has so many renowned companies just because they had great entrepreneurs in their country in 19th & 20th century. Now is the time for the INDIA GOVT to promote Entrepreneurial spirit among the youth of the country. The Educationists should take the initiative to promote Entrepreneurs. Because More the Entrepreneurs, Better will be the employment opportunity. Education should focus more on practical learning rather than rote learning.

West have been the leaders not only because they were highly educated and have world class companies but also because they have developed world class infrastructure and made their places an ideal destinations for the Tourists. India also possess highly consecrated places which we have to promote and make them tourist Spots. So now is the time when INDIAN tourism industry should start promoting our heritage building and museums which we Indians revered a lot. Apart from the heritage buildings, we also have a history associated with those places and the world don't even know history behind those places. So unless we promote such things we will not be able to brand our country. Now is the time when INDIA should start promoting TIER II and TIER III cities for the business and make them new Business destinations. It's the onus on the State governments to identify their strengths and seek opportunities for their states, Because when individual states grow the WHOLE NATION will prosper.

We have one of the most diversified food culture in the world. We in INDIA have Chinese, French restaurants. So what's wrong in promoting our food culture and take our style of food at the global stage. Like Western people have opened McDonald's and many other retail chains in INDIA so why can't we do this. It's the time to promote our traditional food all over the world and we should also open RESTAURANTS, Cafe's and Bars which serve only INDIAN FOOD and Drinks and that too in INDIA STYLE.

Apart from all these one thing which strikes to my mind is Clothing Industry we INDIANS are very much attracted to Western style of clothing. This is because they have promoted their style of clothing and now we are addicted to such style. We are fond of their brand of clothes. So why can't we do such things. Now is the time when we have to promote everything we have. No matter how smaller it is. Why can't we promote our Traditional style of clothing and make the ANGREZ wear Traditional KURTAS, SAREES and many more.. Now is the time when our INDIAN fashion designer should promote varied kinds clothing our tradition have.

Last but not the least is the our TEMPLES and RATH YATRAS. Like there are "FESTS" in WEST and we are attracted to them a lot so now is the time when we SHOULD PROMOTE our TEMPLES and RATH YATRAS which we organize every year. Now is the time to promote our PANDITS, Sanskrit Experts and other Holy Leaders and allow them to go global and make the Angrez learn Indian values. Now is the Time to SPREAD OUR TRADITIONAL VALUES, CULTURE and many more things.

So Friends, Don't you think It's time to MAKE OUR COUNTRY A BRAND INDIA?? I am sure you too would love to see INDIA Becoming a BRAND Value.

I know every individual will have thought of his own, So don't hesitate and Start expressing. Your thoughts and views are most welcome.

Thank you.
Keep Blogging..!!

Thursday, October 14, 2010

It's INDIA All Around...!!!


It's INDIA All Around...!!!


Hello Friends.

Corruption, Tension, Fear, Aggression, Excitement..Being Successful at the END.....Yes Friends for month or so INDIA has been going through such kind of emotions. Here are few instances which kept INDIA on the CENTRE STAGE of the world.

Firstly, We all are very much aware about What was the Scenario of CWG before its commencement and everybody was skeptical about how the games going to be conducted. Every body was blaming the pervert officials for forgery of funds and poor quality of work being done for the CWG and why not, they should. National Pride was at stake and Every body was censuring the Organising Committee. But whatever be the case finally INDIA has displayed great show.

Secondly, Amidst the Heated CWG issue, The Biggest decision i.e. "Ayodhya-Babri Masjid" was about to hear the Final Verdict. Everybody was under severe tension and fear about the after effects of the decision. Every body was waiting for the decision and the scenario was such that many of the schools and offices were closed and as if CURFEW has been declared. People were alert by themselves and all round the message was spread that peace should be maintained. Finally we succeeded in announcing the final verdict without disturbing the country's harmony. This was very critical decision keeping Common Wealth Games in mind. Rumors were rife that many of the Athletes will not come due to security concerns. But Finally INDIA showed to the world that We are united and Nothing can disturb the communal harmony posing very strong message to the world. Hats off to the people of INDIA..!!

Thirdly, When country was busy welcoming the Foreign Delegates and Athletes for the Common Wealth Games, our TEAM INDIA was all set to take over the Aussies in a 2 Test Match Series. Once again this was a series which Every cricket playing nation was closely looking at it. This is was more than a series for INDIA because they have to live up to their reputation of being a No.1 Test Team in the world. And see the Result What more you can except INDIA winning both the matches. A Clean Sweep for the Aussies after almost 25 years. All Credit goes to the GOD OF CRICKET our legendary cricketer SACHIN TENDULKAR who apart from continuing his Juggarnaut Run machine played some superb Match Winning Innings and played a key role in taking INDIA to 2-0 Win in the test series. At last Aussies got to accept the fact that INDIAN's are THE BEST in the World.


Finally, When INDIA TEAM was doing Miracles in Cricket, how can our Athletes remain quiet. They were also grabbing Medals. Creating world Record in Shooting, Boxing and many other events. Moreover for the First time our Hockey Team reached into finale and finally grabbed the Silver Medal. At last INDIA Creating History by winning Highest Ever Gold Medals in a competition and taking INDIAN MEDAL tally to 101 grabbing the Second spot ahead of England. That's really a Commendable effort by athletes of INDIA. Hats off and Congratulations to all the athletes for contributing to INDIA's success.


WoW it's feels great I never seen INDIA being discussed so much by the World. It's Great that INDIA is definitely taking to the WORLD and Proving it's MARK by sheer Talent. Hats off...It's truly pride moment for the Country....Proud to be an INDIAN....!!!!!!!! Jai HIND..!!!

Tuesday, September 7, 2010

Think your JOB INTERVIEW like a DATE..!!!!


Think you JOB INTERVIEW like a DATE..!!!!

Hello friends..!!


I am pleased to see that you all are very responsive and that propels me to write and share my thoughts even more..!! Today I am with some different topic.


Well Friends You might be all familiar with DATING and many of my you might have dated at least once. Right?? Many a time I see students getting intimidated by INTERVIEWS but in a normal world they are very frank and audacious. So Here's a analogy and a THUMB RULE for those who think job interviews are daunting.

Firstly Think you Job interview like a DATE with GIRL/BOY. What Happens in a date, you go out in a best possible manner and try to impress a girl/boy. When you go for a date you in fact rehearse for many times in order to get it right at that moment. So Try that strategy for interviews. Rehearse as many times as possible so that you don't get it wrong.

Secondly when you go for a DATE you check the history of that Girl or Boy, about her way of life, her friend circle and even consult them about her likings. So Why don't you adopt that Strategy while going for a JOB interview? I suggest when you go for a JOB Check out complete profile of the company. Like for a girl you check out her likings, in the similar manner you check out the Technology on which the Company works and try to to get accustom with that Technology. This will not only help to impress the interviewer but also you will make the interviewer feel that you are desperate for the JOB.

Moreover When you go for a DATE you always tend to appreciate either the dressing style or the nature of the GIRL/BOY or the location in order to impress her and to gain more space. So it's always better to adopt this strategy in the interviews too to appreciate things(Not the interviewer dress but the ambiance and the the way recruitment has been conducted and how calm and considerate the team members were) Don't hesitate to do this. This will provide you edge over others and also show your frankness.

Thirdly, Your DATE may or may not be successful but at the end you surely ask her how did you feel meeting me.Right??? Just to evaluate that whatever preps you did were sufficient enough or not. Similar strategy you should also adopt while going for a Job interview. After completion of the Interview whether you get selected or not ask freely "How did you find my interview sir??" This will help you gain two things: First it will help you to overcome your weakness and you will surely rectify for further interviews and second it will make an impression on the minds of the interviewer that The Candidate considers every incidence as an experience and if some time later you meet him he will surely help you and might consider you for a job.

Last but not the least Many a Time I see that students getting nervous at the time of interview and despite having sufficient knowledge not able to crack it. Like in a DATE although a Girl or Boy hits at your weakness you anyhow try to justify it and easily come out of the situation. So similar strategy you should also adopt at your Job interviews. The Interviewer never checks how much you know but in fact he checks how well you can handle pressure. So be cool and answer as if you are answering you sweet heart to save your relationship. This will surely work to an extent.

Well Lot of Gyan was given on Interviews, I am sure many of you might be having many more interesting analogies and suggestions. I am waiting for that. Your views are heartily welcome. Don't hesitate to share your views.

Hope This will help you to crack the interviews not absolutely but at least to an extent. So whenever next time you go for interviews Talk as if you are on a DATE with you girlfriend/boyfriend...!!! All the BEST..!! Wish u a great future ahead..!!

Keep Blogging..!!!!!

Thursday, September 2, 2010

Does Talent Need a BRAND Tag???


Does Talent Need a BRAND Tag???

Hello Friends,
After almost a month I am back with some content which is going in my mind for many days now. So I thought better to put my thoughts on my blog and know my audience views.

There is no doubt that this is a world of advertisements and branding. It is proven fact that the more you advertise, the more will be your popularity. Similarly this concept has entered into the lives of human beings. Now a days humans are also no different from any other product.

Last decade or so we have seen that a product tagged by HUL or ITC or any other international brand will be a big hit but a product of same or better quality will not able to get the desired exposure just because it is not branded. This is not because that non branded product is bad but the problem lies is in the Perception. People tend to trust more on branded products rather than any other ordinary product. Similar is the case with human beings also. Now a days students are striving hard to get a brand attached to their name. More often than not we see that A person studying in IIT or IIM will get much higher package or salary which any other ordinary person can't even think of. This sometimes makes me think that "Is there a dire need to attach a BRAND value to your name"??? Will you be not able to get success without the Brand value????


Friends it is very true that attaching a Brand Name like (IIT and IIM) will give your career a kickstart but it is not the only thing which can give you success. There are many legendary person who without having a brand attached to their name, they themselves made their name a BRAND. Every body might be knowing Mr NR Narayana Murthy(Founder of Infosys) who is not an IIT alumni nor an IIM alumni but still he created such a repo in the industry that even IIM and IIT grads dream of working in his organisation. There are many examples including Bill Gates, Steve Jobs, Michael Dell and many more they were all deprived of attaching a brand name but with their sheer hardwork, talent and self confidence they themselves have made their name a BRAND.

It's great if you can get a kick start in your career by getting a brand name but if in case you are not lucky then you should not worry. Because now there is a chance to make your name a BIG BRAND right? Your talent is not dependent of some organisation or institution to tag it as TALENTED but what matter is your confidence and self belief which takes you ahead in your life. Better know your strengths and weakness and work accordingly.


Though I am writing this article but I am also trying hard to attach a brand name. Since it's a human nature, we should never loose hope but at the same time we should keep in mind that it is not the only thing.


Thank you for being so patient and Wish u a great life ahead...!!!

Keep Blogging and Do share your views too..!!!

Sunday, August 1, 2010

CWG: National Pride @ Stake????



CWG: National Pride @ Stake????

Hello Friends..

My journey of blogging is going great. Hope you all are also enjoying reading..!!!

When matter is about the country or its pride I can't stop myself commenting. Same is the case today. It's always great to host an international tournament not only it helps us to be in limelight but also allows an opportunity to showcase our culture, religion and to go global.

Friends it's true we are in the midst of our CWG preparations and hardly two months left for the D-day. So its time when the committee members have to take the onus of hosting the event successfully. But since last two days what am I listening that Our National Stake is pride??? There are allegations of Money siphoning outside the country???? What this??? This type of news not only put our moral down but also questions our administration.

Rs 35000 Cr is the Amount that was sanctioned for the CWG but still Mr Suresh Kalmadi was caught saying that we need some more money for the development of the stadiums and all that jazz. This type of demands simply questions Are we Really in a State to Host an International Event like CWG???

Many a time, Congress officials caught saying that These type of International events bring national pride to us. But my friends we are a country where 40% of world's starving people exist and we are a country where other than cricket no other sport has a credit to its name. So are these issues not a part of our national pride??? I reckon rather than spending 35000 Cr on this event, if we have spent even 1/10th of this amount on development of training centers and training our National players we would have earn more pride by winning Medals outside country.

Second issue which is paradox to the National pride is Why Don't we host these international events in other cities of the country??? Is Delhi alone represents the country??? Instead of sanctioning whole amount to Delhi govt. if they had given this opportunity to other states then I think we would have been in much better situation than that of we are at present. In that case other cities also have got the opportunity to contribute a little to the national pride.

Cost of 1 A.C is 4 Lac, Cost of a Treadmill is 9 Lac, Aren't these figures shocking??? You believe it or not but yes this is true. Such a big amount is flowing for the event. There are allegations that pervert politicians have siphoned this money outside the country and not allowing it to be useful for the event. Govt. should take immediate steps to identify the pervert politicians and punish them.

I am speaking because we are a tax payer citizens and we have a right to identify where our money is utilized. Its our right to see that our money is utilized effectively, efficiently and transparently. More over our national pride is at stake. But at last whatever be the case We have to be happy and celebrate that CWG will held in October. Still 62 Days left and committee members should contribute and try their level best to make this event a success.

As an Indian I can only be optimistic and hopeful that This event will surely be a great success and will bring National pride.

Jai Ho..!! Thanxx for being so patient..Do share your valuable comments..!!!

Keep Blogging..!!!

Monday, July 26, 2010

Patience is the Key..!!




Hello Friends…

After long gap I am back to blogging…!!!

Friends, the Engineering batch of 2010 has passed out and the chances of getting placed still look somber. This sometimes hurts especially when you know that you are talented and bit of luck will get you through. Many a times I come across a situation that students give up if they are not able to crack 2-3 companies. My dear friends I understand the fact that it’s not that easy to get job when the market is gloomy. What you need is patience and just believe in your abilities that something better is waiting for you.

God has something else in the store for you. What you need is to just thorough preparation and waits for the opportunity.

Here is a story I am sharing of an MCA STUDENT who got SUCCESS after 24 FAILURES. Hats off to him…for being so patient…This is truly inspirational. Just spare time to read this…Will surely boost your confidence….!!!!



"
Hi Everybody,
I am K Anvar Sadath - MCA 2005 batch pass out.

I hope that this mail will help those who are running for a job..
Don't get depressed when you fail in one test or interview but you prepare to shoot ahead.
So preparation is success. Prepare more and more. Don't lose confidence.
Go ahead. go ahead - A great opportunity may be waiting for U.
I would like to share my experience with U (fresher still hunting for a job)

1.Adventnet - Failed in Test
2.C based comp. - Failed in Tech Interview
3.Softlution - Failed in GD
4.TeN - Failed in Tech Interview
5.TCS - Failed in Tech Interview
6.Temenose - Failed in Test
7.Gavs - Failed in Test
8.TCS - Failed in HR Interview
9.Aztec - Failed in HR Interview
10.suntec - Failed in Tech Interview
11.Accenture - Failed in Test
12.USSoftware - Failed in Test
13.Datapatterns - Failed in Tech Interview
14.Avanier - Failed in Tech Interview
15.i-Flex ch - Failed in Test
16.i-Flex blr - Failed in Test
17.Mindtree - Failed in Test
18.protec - Failed in Tech Interview
19.photon info -
20.kyocea - Failed in Test
21.Temenose - NA
22.Global - NA
23 J &B - NA
24.Patni - Failed in GD
25.Thesys - SUCCESS
26 Technosoft - SUCCESS
27.CTS - SUCCESS

I frankly say that i am very poor in english. (very very)
Keep on going on....anyway any of the door will open for U.
Be +ve B+ve .......be hopeful......
"


"A garden is always a series of losses set against a few triumphs, like life itself"

So be prepared whenever the opportunity comes, shoot it.




"If you think you can, you can.
And if you think you can't, you're right"


Hope you will all get some inspiration….This is not only true for those who are hunting for a job but it is also useful for every individual who wants success.
Life is all about patience and those who can survive in times of adversity will surely win the race in the end…!!!

Best of luck..!!
Hope you liked the experience of an MCA guy..!!!!!

Tuesday, June 29, 2010

Modeling: A Traumatic Career..!!


Modeling: A Traumatic Career..!!

Hello Friends,


I always say LIFE is very beautiful and if we can't enjoy it then surely it's our fault. Two days back one of the most happening models of the B-Town Viveka Babajee has committed suicide and ended her life. Speculations are rife that she must be in depression and survival was impossible for her so she took that decision.

I always wonder why such beautiful girls and ladies of B-Town who are blessed with almost all the things which are required for a successful life but still they end up committing suicides. This is not the first case of the B-Town when some model has committed suicide but in the past there were several models who had been through this typical phase of life. In fact there are some models who were so drug addicted they lost all their senses. I always thinks what is the reason for such suicides. Is Modelling life so traumatic??


What I personally realize is that there is not a single reason for the failure of models. There are various factors which contribute to such disaster.

Firstly, As we all know that Going Ups and Downs in career is very natural phenomenon . No body can be a king for whole life. Same is case with the life of the models. When they enter into their modeling career they are pretty young faces and most of the biggies of the town are also happy to cast them into new roles and make the most of them. This is very much fine. But as the life progresses and their job becomes demanding then they have face several thing which are not at all acceptable by them. But since their job is demanding that from them so, they have to do it whatever the situation is. This sometimes creates frustration in them.

Secondly, the modeling culture is so different that they are hardly accepted by the sophisticated people of the society. Drinking, Smoking and doing all the other things which society consider it as a curse are pretty common for them. But since models have to survive and to maintain their status they have to do it. So whenever they walk on ramp or go in parties they are highly appreciated by the people around them but when they actually face the reality they find themselves aloof. Very few parents would love to see their daughters walking on ramp and showcase their body. But most girls take this decision against the will of their parents and society and find that even their loved ones are also not with them. They are in fact totally debarred from the society. So this feeling creates frustration and at the end they find that no one is their to support them in difficult times.

Thirdly, since they are aloof so they find someone who can take care of her and can provide the basic necessities of life. But since they belong to such an extreme profession that a person of sophisticated society is hard to get. So they find solace in the people around them whom they met in parties etc. But there also the path is not easy. Both model and her partner are together just because both of them are getting publicity and they are pretty happy with buzz of their affair. But my friends, any relationship just for the sake of publicity will never ever go long and one day it has to collapse. So one more shock for the model, what she thought to be her life partner ends up ditching her. So another frustration and another despair.


So through this article what I mean to say that nothing is permanent in this universe and whether you are a model, business professional or any other celebrity one thing should be kept in mind that if you have reached to the pinnacle then one day you have to once again come the ground only. So why don't you accept that heartily.

At last I just want to convey the message that Life is full of opportunities and never consider yourself worthless. These models are a big message to the society that what human being needs is satisfaction. So your ultimate aim should be to seek satisfaction and live your life happily.

Thankss a lot for being so patient..!! Waiting for your views..So Do comment..!!!
Keep Blogging..!!!

Sunday, June 20, 2010

Story of Father and Son..!!!


Hello Friends…!!!!

On this Special Day...i.e World Father's Day I thought Why shouldn't I share such a heart touching story....!!!! So here's the story..Plz read it to get full message...!!!!


A young man was getting ready to graduate college. For many months he had admired a beautiful sports car in a dealer's showroom, and knowing his father could well afford it, he told him that was all he wanted.

As Graduation Day approached, the young man awaited signs that his father had purchased the car. Finally, on the morning of his graduation his father called him into his private study. His father told him how proud he was to have such a fine son, and told him how much he loved him. He handed his son a beautiful wrapped gift box.

Curious, but somewhat disappointed the young man opened the box and found a lovely, leather-bound Bible. Angrily, he raised his voice at his father and said, "With all your money you give me a Bible?" and stormed out of the house, leaving the holy
book.

Many years passed and the young man was very successful in business.He had a beautiful home and wonderful family, but realized his father was very old, and thought perhaps he should go to him. He had not seen him since that graduation day. Before he could make arrangements, he received a telegram telling him his father had passed away, and willed all of his possessions to his son. He needed to come home immediately and take care things. When he arrived at his father's house, sudden sadness and regret filled his heart.

He began to search his father's important papers and saw the still new Bible, just as he had left it years ago. With tears, he opened the Bible and began to turn the pages. As he read those words, a car key dropped from an envelope taped behind the Bible.It had a tag with the dealer's name, the same dealer who had the
sports car he had desired. On the tag was the date of his graduation,
and the words...PAID IN FULL.

How many times do we miss God's blessings because they are not
packaged as we expected???? Some Things r Realized when they r not with us...!!!

So I personally Think Father & Son are world's Best Friends..who understands each others feelings very well..So REVERE every Decision of his and Understand his teachings very well...!!!

Thanxx for being so patient..!!!

Keep Blogging..!!!

Friday, June 4, 2010

I am TWEETING.....Are YOU..????
















I am TWEETING...Are YOU..???

Hello Friends...!!!

Am Back after a long gap. I was bit busy with all my silly stuffs of the college and all that jazzz...!!! But any ways I am back with some what new topic.

This time around the world has gone socially addicted. No I am not talking about any weird thing, but in fact I am talking about TWITTER and other social networking sites...!!! These days I am very much addicted to twitter. Not only me but almost all the celebrities, business professionals and every other individual is using it.

Every Individual is now asking questions to everyone, Hey Dude "I am on TWITTER, ARE You???". So this simply shows that How this micro blog which only provides you a space of 140 characters is ruling the mind of people. Every body is socially addicted.

There are several advantages of getting used to this Social Networking. First of all it provides you with instant updates of what all is happening in the world. Since most of news channels are using Twitter and Facebook, So those following can get instant access to the news from anywhere in the world.

More over There are thousands of job portals who are making students and job seekers aware of the latest jobs of their choice. Like I am following http://www.freshersworld.com/which provides me instant access to the recent happening in the world of corporates. I get daily updates about the companies which are on a hiring spree.

Since many students and business professionals are using it as a tool to expand their business and as a source of information, Celebs are also not devoid of this addiction. I can see almost every celebrity tweeting every update.

Many Says that This Twitter and Facebook is all for the youngsters. Who Says this?? Recently the most senior pro of our Bollywood industry Mr Amitabh Bachchan Started his twitter account and in no time his followers reached One Lakh. So this simply shows that how every body want to make their presence felt in the world of Social Networking.

Many thinks that this is a sheer waste of time. But my dear friends you will be shocked to know that companies have started identifying how socially active a person is??? You simply type a name on Google and it will display your presence in the world of Social networking. So like We are socially active in our society it is the need of the hour to be socially active on Web too.

Though Social Networking is Advantageous but it has flip side too. Like we are updating every information of ours on the twitter and facebook and all the other social networking website, this has allowed an easy access for the terrorist and criminals to identify the full portfolio of a person and can easily trace out where the person is at present. This is a biggest threat social sites are suffering from. But it depends on the individual what information they want to display and what to not. It is very important for a person what image they want to project in front of their peers. Whatever they will write the other person will be able to know. So Take it as a Caution: You have to keep your privacy intact while doing social networking.

But anyways despite having some flaws in social networking every individual is loving it and getting addicted to it. In fact now with the Introduction of 3G in the country this thing will definitely going to rise and you will find people using it very frequently and that too at an ease. Whether this Sociall Networking boom in India is going to be hit or not only time will tell. Keep your fingers crossed.

So Friends I am surely tweeting and facebooking...Are you....??? Join Social networking websites and make your presence felt globally. I am personally enjoying this newly generated interest in social networking. Hows you feeling..??? Do reply and share your social networking experience..!!!

Thank you..!!!!

Friday, May 7, 2010

KASAB Deserves Death...!!!!

KASAB Deserves Death..!!

Hello friends..

Indian Constitution has today taken a historic decision. Yes, you all guessed it right, I am talking about KASAB the lone surviving terrorist of 26/11.

26/11, The Day which brought India to knees. It was one of the biggest terrorist attack and not only it was the attack but more over it was an effort to plummet India's image. Their sole aim was to create fear amongst the people of India.

Amir Ajmal Kasab, The lone surviving terrorist who was convicted of 166 deaths and more than 86 other cases got the punishment for his deeds. After 17 months of his detention he got the reward for what he did. He was in fact treated like a VIP. You might be shocked to hear that More than 35 Cr Rs have been spent till date on him. He was such a costly customer for India. Every Indian is pretty happy with the decision made by the Judiciary of India and it was almost expected that He will be sentenced to death.

As soon as I got the confirmation I was excited and jubilant that those bloody terrorist who were involved in bitter vendetta got what they deserved.Though he got the Capital Punishment but still one thing I was worrying about WHEN he will finally sentenced to death???? Because there are as many as 52 cases pending regarding the death sentence but still they aren't executed. I am reminded of the case of AFZAL GURU, he was also given capital punishment but till date it has not been executed. That's is something which is really a issue of concern not only for me but for whole India.

Giving Death punishment is of no use until and unless it is executed.I must say that this decision should be taken very fast so as to spread the message among the terrorist that No one will be Tolerated, when it comes to terrorism. It has to be executed as soon as possible.

At last I just want to say that Indian Judiciary has done the justice towards Indian people but now it's time to wait and see when alleged terrorist KASAB get the life sentence. Hope it happens soon.

Thank you..!!!

Monday, May 3, 2010

India: A Talent Hub


India: A TALENT HUB..!!


Hello friends

Last blog was all about my loneliness but this time around you will be reading something about our Country. Yes our Country INDIA which is I think is a TALENT HUB.

You all might be pretty familiar with the talent hunts organized in our country. The talent hunt shows we called them as Reality Shows. Friends when we see the 25 year young performing on the stage then we don't see it as any exception, considering he might be practicing for long time. But what about a kid of meager 5 years of age, performing exceptionally well. Then we consider it as talent which needs to be nurtured. The facial expressions and the professionalism they show in their performance is worth appreciating. It is pretty injustice towards them to call them as amateurs. They are fabulous. This is what makes me proud of this country. India is a hub of talent and what they need is recognition of their potential.

Recently two Reality Dance shows for the kids viz "CHAK DHOOM DHOOM" on colors and "L'll Master" a junior version of DID(Dance India Dance). The contestants are called from all over India and almost every city is immensely talented that it's hard to choose a single one as winner. In fact it is like choosing that BEST amongst the BEST. I am very much impressed by these little kids showing lot much confidence and daring to touch the peak. They are really ambitious and their comments suggest that they have decided their objective in life and are working for that. I must say Indian kids are worth a gold. They will really be the superstars in the coming years.

Though they are vastly talented and they are getting a platform to showcase their talent. But Friends one thing that makes me apprehensive that "Is it Really a Right Age for them to face this kind of tough competition??" I agree with the fact that everybody cannot be selected but still when these little kids are meant to enjoy every moment of their childhood are forced to work really hard for such competitions. Are these Reality shows ruining their childhood. After tremendous hard work a kid, if not selected can sometimes bear huge mental shock and in that case it is a big loss to the country.

So, I am not opposing such talent hunt shows but I want to appeal to all the little kids and their gracious parents that Don't make your kid's life stressful. They are still in growing age and pressuring them for just a competition will be injustice to their childhood. Parent's have now bigger responsibility to make their kid understand this is just the competition and not the life. This kind of inspiration will definitely allow them to work freely and will be much better for their future. And I also appeal to these reality show people that Please Widen the scope of the competition and instead of just rejecting such little kids give them at least a little gift as memento in the same manner as if you are awarding to the winner so that they will cherish it for long. Even a little scholarship to every participant will boost their confidence. If you will do so then little kids will get motivated and your show(Talent Hunt Shows) will no longer be stressful but then it will be a great philanthropic effort from your side.

Hope you like my article and pretty much agreed to my point. Waiting for you valuable comments as always....Keep Blogging...!!!!!

Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Loneliness Kills...!!!!















Life is Missing Girl Factor....!!!

Hello Friends...!!

I always support the fact that LIFE is the most pleasurable gift. But sometimes it happens that Life becomes insipid and less charming just because we are missing someone..!!!

It's very true that Every thing takes time and we need to keep patience. But for how long???? Actually we expect a lot from ourselves. We try to implement our fantasies into real life.

Imagine a situation where there is someone who cares for you other than your parents and the family. This will definitely give you a sense of responsibility and will make you feel complete. Those who have girlfriend are pretty lucky, at least they have some one with which they can share their life. But life sometimes become very dull for those who don't have girlfriend or misses a girl factor.

What is the reason actually?? I always think that What is the real secret of making the girlfriend. Many a times I found my friends wallowing in the discussing about How coward are we that WE DON'T even have a girlfriend. But friend I ask you all that Is it really a matter of DARING to propose a girl or it automatically happens??

How pleasure situation it would be that someone remembers your special occasion and throws surprises to you. How beautiful it would be that someone cares for every need of yours and takes care of you. How beautiful life would be that you are responsible for your girlfriend. How beautiful it would be that You spend hours talking to your girlfriend without thinking what is happening around you...!!!! I heard that Life totally changes after you have a girlfriend..but up to what extent I don't know???

But Yes it is rightly said that At some point of time Man is incomplete without a Girl. It tends to get lonely at times especially if you're above 21. Sometimes you would long to have someone special around your age that you can confide and discuss anything with. It usually gives a good sense of feeling knowing that you have someone you can call and discuss everything whether it's a joyous moment or you are depressed. I personally think that Life with Girlfriend would be much better than a Life without Girlfriend..!!!

What are your Views..??? Every individual has his own perception...I would like to know your views and let me understand which life is better(with girlfriend or without girlfriend)..!!

By the Way I am very happy with the way my life is going on..But I just want to know how others look at the life..!!

Avidly Waiting for your comments..!!! Do post your comments..!!!

Wednesday, April 21, 2010

4 Yrs on...Misconception Rules my Mind...!!!!


Hello Friends..!!!!

Welcome you all...!! For the last few days blogging was brought to standstill..!!
Hmm Was Quite busy in college work and all that Jazzz...!!!

Friends....This is an article...which I m forced to write. I can't stop myself from sharing it on my blog. Relationships are like a glass....Even a Single Crack can damage the beauty of the relationship..!!!
This is what is actually happening recently at the college leaving party.

We entered in college taking a dream of making lot many friend and we to an extent build a great bond between the class members. But when some hostile thing happens it really hurts everybody..!!

As one of my friend said "Individually, we are one drop. Together, we are an ocean." This theory we should implement to our class also. When we came to college 4 Yrs Before we were single drop but during these beautiful 4 Yrs we are now like an ocean, so why there is so much turbulence in this ocean when we are about to leave.

Life is short and within a very short time we need to create unforgettable memories, Instead of creating sweet memories the ambiance is full of rancorous moments..!!!

College leaving party is tribute to the 4 year relationship we have built up. So onus is on us to make it one of the most unforgettable moment of life. Misconception will always be there but it should not affect the party..!!! We need to enjoy fully and without everybody's support it will not be possible..!! Even a single friend missing a party will be big blow for us..!!!

So at last I just want to say that Don't be a victim of Misconceptions and Participate enthusiastically. Every effort will somehow strengthen the bond.

Hope I didn't write nything controversial...!! If any plz don't mind it..!!!

All set for the College Leaving Party...!!! Great..!!!!

I xpect everybody to be a part of this event...!!! Guys we will definitely rock...!!!

Friday, April 9, 2010

Ambush At Dantewada..!!!












Ambush @ Dantewada…!!!!

Hello Friends…!!

The journey of blogging was going fantastic until the country was brought under severe pain by the Bloody Naxalites. Yes, you guessed it right. I am actually talking about Ambush at Dantewada.

After the terrorist attack on 26/11, every thing was going alright but these Naxal attacks has brought country down to the knees. Two Days ago i.e on 6th April the country faced one of the deadliest attack ever on the security personnel of the country. As per the news 76 CRPF personnel died in the ambush.

I as a citizen of India was badly hurt after hearing news and was wondering what has actually gone wrong??? After 26/11 the country was doing very well and I was pretty impressed by the work done by Mr. Chidambaram but this ambush at Dantewada was shocking and gruesome. This is a war against India. It is not a small incident. This is a war-like situation. Some necessary steps need to be taken by the government.

This incident has affected every individual of the country and created fire among all the Indians. So this is the time when the government need to act. Govt. need to create such an ambiance that country doesn’t panic and can easily combat against Naxalites.

I personally think that there is lack of coordination between the police and the CRPF jawans. There was proposal that Air Force should be used if ambush augments but Air Force chief denied that there is no such need. I say there are more than 1000’s of Naxalites in the forest at Dantewada and already 76 security personnel has been killed so why we are not taking stringent actions. Still Mr. Chidambaram was saying that we need to remain calm and we should keep patience but how?? This is high time, our country security is at stake and we are not able to do anything. This is really embarrassing for the country people.

Few hours ago I heard news that Mr. Chidambaram is actually planning to resign. How insane he is yrr..???? When the country needs the support of the government he is actually signing off from the seat. If Mr Chidambarm resigns then I must say it will be psychological victory for the Naxalites because what they wanted is to hinder the country administration and so they did it..!! So in my opinion Mr. Chidambaram should take the onus of this deadly attack and act willfully. We are with him as a citizen of India.

After this attack there was an urgent need for the government to come into the action. There is war at the border but another war is also going within the States. So for the same PM Manmohan Singh announced a Rs 7,300 crores development package and withdrawing more than 1,00,000 petty cases against the tribals in Jharkhand.

The government must, however, ensure the schemes are implemented properly and the developmental efforts are sustainable and inclusive. The efforts require a high level of commitment that will be difficult to find, given the past records of both the Centre and the state governments of Chhatisgarh.

Poverty has affected the tribal districts to such a an extent that, the tribals here believe that it is better to die in a fight than die of hunger, or worse, see their families die. No development work has taken place in Lalgarh in the last one year. Ironically, the last team of bureaucrats that visited the gram panchayats in Lalgarh recently, had promised BPL cards in two weeks, which is yet to be fulfilled.

The only way to end the war permanently, is through rapid and inclusive growth, keeping in mind the interests and rights of the villagers and the tribes.

Hope this ambush ends very soon and it will be possible only when the Govt. and Security personnel work concordantly.

Through this blog I want to pay tribute to those 76 Security Personnel who lost their lives in Naxal Attack. Kudos to the Brave countrymen…!!!!!!!!


Keep Blogging..!!!!!

Tuesday, April 6, 2010

Sania-Shoaib SAGA..!!!!



Sania-Shoaib SAGA..!!!!

Hello Friends,

Hope you all are enjoying Blogging..!!!

This time around the most talented sportsperson of the world are under severe scrutiny. Yes, you all guessed it right?? I am actually talking about the our country's darling SANIA MIRZA and Ex-Pakistani Captain Shoaib Malik' wedding.

From Last year or so Sania is into the news for all the wrong reasons. We expect Sania to perform well at the World level in Tennis but she is actually in quest for her hubby globally. Last year we heard the news that Sania is going to marry his childhood friend Sohrab Mirza. But eventually this year the relationship ended up rancorously . We all speculated that might be Sania's professionalism made her to take this decision, but who knows that she is actually having cross border connection with most talented cricketer of Pakistan Shoaib Malik.


Well, I actually have no problem because this is not the first time when our Indian Celebrity is getting married globally. Previously also Viv Richards had an affair with Neena Gupta and Zaheer Abbas Pakistan cricketer getting married to Indian. So it's not that it's first time such an incident is happening. But still why this thing has actually heated up like a red iron in meager 3-4 days????

Is being a celebrity a Curse in INDIA???? Why there is so much overreaction to this issue??????? The rumors are rife that Shoaib is already married to Aayesha(Hyderabadi girl) and she is claiming to be his first wife. We as a common man don't know what is the real story??? But I can just say that MEDIA should stop interfering in their personal lives. It is their life and they are responsible for good or bad. If Aayesha thinks Shoaib is cheating then she should file a case in court and then leave it to the court.

What I saw yesterday that Both the legendary sportsperson facing trial against the media was really embarrassing. They both are very revered world over and since they are celebrities their marriage is much talked about. If any common man would have done it then their won't be much talks. Why so with Celebrities??? I was badly hurt in the manner media was treating both of them. They both belong to respectable families and they also have some emotions, So we should take care of that.

We as a citizens of INDIA are getting emotional because our DARLING SANIA MIRZA is getting married amidst such controversy. I can understand it but it is also our moral responsibility that we should respect her decision of MARRIAGE because its such a consecrate act. WE just pray that they should marry what ever their past life be and live happily for ever. Hope any MEDIA personal read this article and act in some what better manner.

At last I can just say that Sania has broken hearts of many but if we truly love her then just pray for her Successful life with Shoaib instead of creating a mess of it.

It's simply my views, Any person getting hurt don't take it personally..!!!!!

Thanxxx for reading..!!!

Keep Blogging..!!!

Tuesday, March 30, 2010

"SOME THINGS ARE REALISED WEN THEY ARE NOT WITH US."

"SOME THINGS ARE REALISED WEN THEY ARE NOT WITH US."

Hello Frnds…!!!!


After lot many general ideas of mine, I thought Why shouldn’t I share something serious??? So here's one morose story but with a real message..!!!!

This might sound you somewhat wearisome to you all but please to get a real message plz read it.


A young man was getting ready to graduate college. For many months he had admired a beautiful sports car in a dealer's showroom, and knowing his father could well afford it, he told him that was all he wanted.

As Graduation Day approached, the young man awaited signs that his father had purchased the car. Finally, on the morning of his graduation his father called him into his private study. His father told him how proud he was to have such a fine son, and told him how much he loved him. He handed his son a beautiful wrapped gift box.

Curious, but somewhat disappointed the young man opened the box and found a lovely, leather-bound Bible. Angrily, he raised his voice at his father and said, "With all your money you give me a Bible?" and stormed out of the house, leaving the holy
book.

Many years passed and the young man was very successful in business.He had a beautiful home and wonderful family, but realized his father was very old, and thought perhaps he should go to him. He had not seen him since that graduation day. Before he could make arrangements, he received a telegram telling him his father had passed away, and willed all of his possessions to his son. He needed to come home immediately and take care things. When he arrived at his father's house, sudden sadness and regret filled his heart.

He began to search his father's important papers and saw the still new Bible, just as he had left it years ago. With tears, he opened the Bible and began to turn the pages. As he read those words, a car key dropped from an envelope taped behind the Bible.It had a tag with the dealer's name, the same dealer who had the
sports car he had desired. On the tag was the date of his graduation,
and the words...PAID IN FULL.

How many times do we miss God's blessings because they are not
packaged as we expected????

So we should accept every gift wholeheartedly, who knows....what is for you in store..!!!

Thanxx for being so patient..!!!

Hope you liked my creation...!! Keep Blogging..!!!!

Sunday, March 21, 2010

Entrepreneurship….The Future Lies Ahead…!!!!!!



Entrepreneurship….The Future Lies Ahead…!!!!!!

India is going through a great Run this time round. India is among those countries whose economy was growing even when the world was going through the rough patch. It is generally said that “When the USA sneezes the whole world catches the cold”. But India was lucky enough to come out of the crises fruitfully.

This sounds Encouraging. But friends don’t you think that Indians are highly dependent on USA and other multinational companies for the survival??. Almost Half the fortune 500 companies have their presence in US or in West, but there are hardly any Indian companies who managed to do so. India is producing World class Engineers from IIT’s and World Class Managers from IIM’s but still we are lacking when it comes to create business opportunities. We are more of a jobs seeker rather than the job creator. Isn’t it???

This is where I think India is lacking. This is what I think "Entrepreneurship is the future lies ahead"

Who doesn’t want to be an owner of a company? I think it’s a dream of many isn’t it?? An ENTREPRENEUR is a person who is a mixed blend of leadership skills, knowledge, ability to take risks and more over who believes in creating jobs rather than seeking for job.

Friends, these days I have been going through rigorous training of GD/PI for MBA entrance and I many a times come across hearing that I want to own a company and I want to be an Entrepreneur. In fact I also give such kind of answers. No, not because everybody gives such kind of answers but I really want to own a Company. Such aspirations need to be invigorated.

Frankly speaking there are almost 5L Engineers, 2.5L Managers, 3L BCom’s & BSc’s and some more grad make some total of nearly 15L Graduates every year. And the number of job vacancies created is almost 50%. So, what will happen of those remaining 8L who are also skillful but are not fortunate enough to grab a job? In fact I must say they are not unlucky but in my opinion they have much bigger opportunity to create their own empire. Why are they running for the jobs everywhere?

You will be shocked to know that only 15% of the business is organized in India and rest is totally unorganized. So, why to run for that merely 15% when the vast 85% of unorganized sector is calling you?

Why not take the education industry. It contributes mere 2% to the GDP of the country. Here lies the big opportunity for the youngster to pursue their career and accomplish their entrepreneurial dream. Although not today but in near future the Govt. has to think in this direction of promoting Entrepreneurs. Without this it is almost impossible to create employment opportunities for the people.

It is fact that India is land of opportunities and more than 2/3rd of the population is below 35 Years. So this is where India can use this enormous manpower. GOOGLE, YAHOO, DELL, MICROSOFT, APPLE were such companies which were founded by youngsters at the age of almost 20-25. This was possible only because they had support from the government. Their education system is such designed that new ideas are promoted very much. GOOGLE was founded in Stanford University by the university grads right? U.S. and other European countries prospered because they promoted entrepreneurs. Such tactics need to be followed by India too.

It is not the case that Indian Universities doesn’t promote entrepreneurship but it is at a very inchoate stage. Only IIM-A (DREAM BIG 2010) and ISB Hyderabad and EDI Gandhinagar are such institutes which offer these courses. For Indian and the youth to prosper the Education has to play a big role. Universities should start Entrepreneurial courses as a part of their curriculum. This will not only provide youth opportunity but also allow the country to grow at much faster rate. Recently Infosys Co-founder Mr. Narayan Murthy and his wife Ms. Sudha Murthy came up with an idea of being a “Venture Capitalist (Catamaran)” which is intended to promote the Entrepreneurs. Many more business tycoons need to come up with the idea of promoting Entrepreneurs.

So, at last I want to say that India can no longer rely on the West for the survival because after this recession major companies like GM and Bank of America plunged to a great extent. China and India are the two big economies which will be dictating the world for the coming decade. So it’s a great opportunity to come up with new business ideas. Who knows India can up with more MICROSOFT and GOOGLE in the coming decade….!!!!

Hope you liked my Idea….!!!! More Ideas are highly welcomed by you all..!!! Keep Blogging…….!!!!!!

Tuesday, March 16, 2010

Are You "Praying or Begging"..????















Praying or Begging..??


Man is avaricious by nature. He is so covetous that he has forgotten the basic essence of worship. God is present everywhere but still a man goes to temple & pray (beg) for almost everything.

Yes friends, this generally happens with almost every common man who is striving for a successful life. Every body wants to be successful and every individual has its own parameter for success. Man is so determined to get succeed that he strives for almost everything in life. For that purpose he started begging from God instead of worshiping him. And see the God,Despite all the odds he is so generous that he fulfills almost every one’s wish either instantly or sometime latter.

Consider GOD as a common man. What happens when you ask something with a common man? When you ask for something he gives it and goes away without thinking whether that thing was useful to you or not. He has fulfilled his purpose by providing that desired thing to you. But will that stop your greed??? No. It won’t. It is the basic characteristic of an individual that we are actually voracious for our materialistic needs.

Similar thing happens with the GOD also when you desire something you pray or rather beg in front of god and he will definitely fulfill you wish but by doing so you have lost the GOD for ever. Because when you ask for a thing everyday with a common man he will one day get annoyed and will not pester about your wants. Similar is the case with the God, when you go to temple daily and pray (beg), God also gets annoyed and at some point he doesn’t care about your wants and needs. Because you are avid for almost everything. Instead of Begging for materialistic needs, start Praying God from true Heart and wish that he stands with us every time whether its good time or bad. God is something who is always with us and we should use him at a very critical point of time in life, not every day we should expect him to give something. Isn’t it?????

When our needs are fulfilled we thank God by either donating Prasad or Some Gift and from the next day again we start getting greedy for other thing. This is a vicious cycle which will never end. We always expect a positive denouement from God without thinking whether we really deserved it or not.

My dear friends Every one has something in the store. That something is the combination of (HARDWORK & OPPORTUNITY). We have to keep doing hard work and wait for the opportunity to come and we will definitely get the thing we desire for. For that we don’t need to pray or beg in front of the GOD…!!!!!!


So friends, My personal experience truly says that We actually are not worshiping rather begging for our materialistic needs and in that process we are loosing the true essence of worship. So from next time just pray for the welfare and not for fulfilling our never ending greeds…!!!!

Hope you like my article..!!!! Don’t forget to share your valuable comments and Keep Blogging..!!!!!