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Monday, March 8, 2010

Experience the LOVE without LOVE...!!!

Experience the LOVE without LOVE...!!!

Hello Friends...!!!

Love is substantive for life. Whether it is a love of your family members or a love of your life partner. It is most beautiful sentiment that everybody want to be a part in his life time.

When we are born we get a love of our mother and father. We get happy because all our desires are fulfilled by our lovely parents. But at some stage in life when we enter into adolescent age our demands are such that it can't be fulfilled by the parents. Hence then the most awaited moment of our life i.e the college life, where we can fulfill our dreams and experience love other than our parental love.

Friends did you ever spare a thought why we are need love in college or when we reach at a age of 18-20? No naa??...It's because at the age of 18-20 our parental love turns in to a deep friendship and then we are bereaved of experiencing a love. So that's why we need a person who thinks of us and have some feelings for us other than friendship.

This is a fact most of us quest for girlfriends when we are mature i.e. in college. Those who get one of their type, I must say they are lucky, but what about those who don't get their loved ones??? Don't they have any feelings?? or Don't they deserve to get the love in college??? They do. But the problem is that they don't try and most importantly they don't dare to express their love. This is a reason why they fail. Their is saying "WINNERS DON'T DO DIFFERENT THINGS, THEY DO DIFFERENTLY". So this is exactly true, if you want to experience love go ahead and express it without any hesitation.

But those who don't dare to express love or have their love far from them, I have a different solution for them. I must say this is somewhat better and safe way of experiencing love. This is called EXPERIENCING LOVE WITHOUT LOVE..!!!

See when you love someone you have feelings for them. So what you need is the his/her presence. So is it always necessary that he/she should be present?? No... It is up to you how you feel her and enjoy that moment. Close your eyes and think about her and experience her. This is called World of FANTASY. Yes, you can experience a love by going into a different world for a moment and imagine all those things or situations you would have love to do in her presence. That moment will give you immense happiness without any fear of getting slapped or insulted. After all what you need is the happiness and love and you are getting it. Though you will get a VIRTUAL LOVE but yes at least you have something to cheer and reason for being happy.

But this theory has a huge disadvantage. It will affect your lifestyle and it might hinder your working and henceforth your studies. So take care you don't get addict to the world of FANTASIES because things in reality are far more different and complex. It's just a way to remain happy not the only way to remain happy.

Friends this theory of Experiencing love might feel weird to many but still this can be one way in which you can enjoy many moments in your life..!!!!

Write your experiences about love and yes if you have any ways in which you can experience love.. Don't hesitate to put it here...!!!!

Thnxx..!!!!

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